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A GOOD LISTENER

The Upper Room Devotion for Friday, April 21, 2023, was written by Elizabeth Erlandson of Nebraska.

19 You must understand this, my beloved: let everyone be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger; 20 for your anger does not produce God's righteousness.

21 Therefore rid yourselves of all sordidness and rank growth of wickedness, and welcome with meekness the implanted word that has the power to save your souls. 22 But be doers of the word, and not merely hearers who deceive themselves. 23 For if any are hearers of the word and not doers, they are like those who look at themselves in a mirror; 24 for they look at themselves and, on going away, immediately forget what they were like. 25 But those who look into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and persevere, being not hearers who forget but doers who act—they will be blessed in their doing. 26 If any think they are religious, and do not bridle their tongues but deceive their hearts, their religion is worthless. 27 Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to care for orphans and widows in their distress, and to keep oneself unstained by the world.

James 1:19-27 NRSV

 

A GOOD LISTENER



We live in a hurried world where listening with compassion and understanding is rare. James 1:19 reminds us to be quick to listen and slow to speak. Listening well is a difficult discipline to cultivate, but it is worth the effort. In a noisy and distracted world, finding someone who cares enough to pause and acknowledge our feelings is priceless. Perhaps by becoming good listeners we will encourage others to come back and hear what God says to them through us.

 

Friends,

Often, we are so focused on being heard that we ignore listening to others. We interrupt others, before they have had the chance to finish their thought, to make sure we express our viewpoint. We make assumptions about what someone intends to say and begin responding based on our assumption versus what was actually said. We do not take the time to pause, focus on hearing and understanding others. Elizabeth’s reflection highlights the gift of grace that is extended when we listen compassionately. The author of the Book of James underscores the importance of listening before speaking, so that our words might be tempered by understanding, empathy, and grace. As you continue through your day, take time to pause and listen to the story of one who crosse your path.

-Pastor Anthony

 

Prayer

Dear God, open our ears so that we may hear your voice. Teach us by your Spirit to truly listen to others. Amen.

- Elizabeth Erlandson

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